23 years of love, resilience, and authentic connection ⏤ Aggie Konde, a Ugandan Wife, Mother and Coach shares lessons on balancing family, career and growth Aggie Asiimwe Konde is an all-too-familiar face and name in corporate Uganda where she is still revered for revamping the Pepsi franchise brands in Uganda as well as leading Nation Media Group’s NTV Uganda, before leaving to take on the role of CEO of Msingi East Africa. Now the VP, of Program Innovation and Delivery at the Nairobi-headquartered Alliance for a Green Revolution in Africa (AGRA), Aggie shared her 23-year reflections on being a working woman, wife, mother and coach on her social media platforms.

Reproduced with her permission, here below, are some key lessons⏤ well, she calls them “gems” and “5 simple reflections” of what she says have been “a transformative shining a light on the power of love, resilience, and growth” that have “guided our path to success”.  

• My Life Partner Stanley: Nelly as I call him, has been my greatest teacher in understanding the power of love. Through his unwavering support, compassion, and commitment, I have learned the importance of nurturing a deep connection and fostering a relationship built on trust, respect, and open communication. Our story serves as a testament to the transformative power of a strong and dependable partner no matter what. He has cheered me on every journey, every twist and turn without judging. Who is your cheerleader in life? 

• Our Kids ⏤ Cultivating Resilience and Growth: Raising our children has been an incredible journey, filled with teachable moments for personal mastery. Witnessing their triumphs and challenges has taught us the importance of resilience, adaptability, and fostering an environment that encourages growth and self-discovery. They have inspired us to embrace change and strive for continuous personal development and seeing each of them find their own unique voice has been our greatest discovery as parents.

• Friends ⏤ The Power of Authentic Connections: Our friendships all the way from Afrocourt Oyee (Tai (Metu) Elviso (Bestie) have provided invaluable lessons in our personal mastery. From the friends we made during our university years to the ones we have met throughout our marriage, these authentic connections have taught us the significance of surrounding oneself with positive influences and a supportive community. They have shown us the power of collaboration, empathy, and the importance of leaning on others during happy and challenging times. Mwebare munonga! 

• Challenges as teachable moments: Our marriage has faced numerous challenges that have tested our strength and commitment. These obstacles have become teachable moments for personal mastery, revealing the resilience, perseverance, and problem-solving skills necessary to navigate life’s difficulties. By embracing challenges as opportunities for growth, we have emerged stronger, individually and as a couple. 

• Embracing the Future: As we celebrate 23 years of marriage, we eagerly anticipate the future with a renewed sense of purpose. Our journey has taught us the importance of setting meaningful goals, cultivating a growth mindset, and aligning our actions with our values. We approach the future as an ongoing opportunity for growth, embracing new experiences, and continuously expanding our horizons in service of others. 

Through the lens of our 23-year marriage, we have learned that love, resilience, and authentic connections are essential pillars of any relationship and personal growth. As a coach, I encourage you to embrace the lessons learned from our journey and apply them to your own life. Embrace challenges as opportunities for growth, nurture meaningful relationships, and align your actions with your values. May this celebration of our marriage inspire you on your path to personal mastery and guide you towards a life filled with purpose, resilience, and success.